Wagamama Ukiyo

Selfish Life. Selfish World.

Filler May 23, 2008

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Just a quick filler post, as I’ve been too busy to take time and write anything here recently.

I came across this song, and it’s worth listening to.

Beth Rowley – “Nobody’s fault but mine”

And a quick question/thought for you;

In life, do we spend so much time worrying about what other people think about us, and what they want that we forget about what we want? What our hearts want? And what we are really meant to do? And who we really are?…


A few topics… May 10, 2008

Filed under: Uncategorized — Gage @ 12:55 am
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Last night I didn’t post anything, so today I am going to post about 3 small topics.

(1) Explain Yourself!

In life you have to explain yourself… your actions and have to justify what you do. When you are a child you have to do this often, but when you get to a certain age shouldn’t you be able to just say “This is how it is, and I don’t have to explain it” I mean, why should you explain it to anyone? You are your own person and what you do is up to you. Are you worried what people might think? What they might find out? Are you… Paranoid?

Relax… you don’t have to Justify yourself to anyone!

(2) Identity

When you pretend to be so many people, someone you are not it can become difficult, you become that person. You make relationships and bonds as that person and then when you finally get sick of being that person, there is no way to back up and be who you really are. Everything you have as your other identity must be lost, and sometimes you get caught up in being someone you are not.

Who are you really?

(3) Just sex…

When people say “It’s just sex” or “all I want is sex, nothing else” do they really mean it? Can it ever be ‘Just Sex’? Surely when you have sex, such a close, intimate and special interaction you form some sort of bond, some sort of relationship. So really, can it ever be “Just Sex”?


Can men ever ‘really’ become women? May 7, 2008

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Firstly, id like to point out that I could not think of anything to post about today, and in the end settled with this 🙂

Today when I was walking down the street, in the hot summer weather I saw a man walking towards me, and then past me. This got my mind thinking “Can men ever really become women?” And I can’t make that answer, because there is so much to consider.

Sure, men can have surgery to remove their male parts, and they can take hormones to make their hair and voice change, and they can have breast surgery to make them look more womanly and they can even have counseling to feel more feminine but does this make them a real woman?

What I mean is they can’t change the way they naturally walk, talk or even their facial expressions. These are different for everyone, we are all unique and we all have our own little ‘ways’ like the way we look at people, the way we react to certain things and the way our mind works. This can never be changed and it is with us forever, because it is what defines us, it is our personality.

Another thing we can’t change is our childhood, and our childhood is the ‘foundations’ of our life.

So this leaves us all with a thought, that we can never really understand, can a man ever really become a real woman?