Wagamama Ukiyo

Selfish Life. Selfish World.

Friends + Sex = Awkward? May 12, 2008

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I read a Blog post today, a friends actually and in it she described something… that in my mind could of been her having sex! And I felt awkward, do I really want to know about her sex life? I mean course I do! But do I really? haha Because on one hand I want to have a gossip, ask her how it was, if he was cute etc etc. and on the other hand I don’t particularly want an Image of her having sex in my mind, mainly because she’s a close friend and she’s so cute, little and adorable! In my mind she is an angel and does not have sex! But I guess there is always that gossipy instinct that makes me want to know all of the details, and chat about it for ages.

Some things are just so complicated… Maybe even Angels have sex…


A few topics… May 10, 2008

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Last night I didn’t post anything, so today I am going to post about 3 small topics.

(1) Explain Yourself!

In life you have to explain yourself… your actions and have to justify what you do. When you are a child you have to do this often, but when you get to a certain age shouldn’t you be able to just say “This is how it is, and I don’t have to explain it” I mean, why should you explain it to anyone? You are your own person and what you do is up to you. Are you worried what people might think? What they might find out? Are you… Paranoid?

Relax… you don’t have to Justify yourself to anyone!

(2) Identity

When you pretend to be so many people, someone you are not it can become difficult, you become that person. You make relationships and bonds as that person and then when you finally get sick of being that person, there is no way to back up and be who you really are. Everything you have as your other identity must be lost, and sometimes you get caught up in being someone you are not.

Who are you really?

(3) Just sex…

When people say “It’s just sex” or “all I want is sex, nothing else” do they really mean it? Can it ever be ‘Just Sex’? Surely when you have sex, such a close, intimate and special interaction you form some sort of bond, some sort of relationship. So really, can it ever be “Just Sex”?


Can men ever ‘really’ become women? May 7, 2008

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Firstly, id like to point out that I could not think of anything to post about today, and in the end settled with this 🙂

Today when I was walking down the street, in the hot summer weather I saw a man walking towards me, and then past me. This got my mind thinking “Can men ever really become women?” And I can’t make that answer, because there is so much to consider.

Sure, men can have surgery to remove their male parts, and they can take hormones to make their hair and voice change, and they can have breast surgery to make them look more womanly and they can even have counseling to feel more feminine but does this make them a real woman?

What I mean is they can’t change the way they naturally walk, talk or even their facial expressions. These are different for everyone, we are all unique and we all have our own little ‘ways’ like the way we look at people, the way we react to certain things and the way our mind works. This can never be changed and it is with us forever, because it is what defines us, it is our personality.

Another thing we can’t change is our childhood, and our childhood is the ‘foundations’ of our life.

So this leaves us all with a thought, that we can never really understand, can a man ever really become a real woman?